The Ten-Stage Self-Love Recovery™ Treatment Program: Getting To The Codependency Cure™
The 10 Stage Self-Love Recovery™ Treatment Program represents the latest thinking and theoretical formulation on codependency, attachment and addiction treatment. This revolutionary model is the backbone for Ross Rosenberg’s internationally recognized work on “The Codependency Cure™” and “Self-Love Deficit Disorder™.” This innovative paradigm provides required conceptual information to move beyond Rosenberg’s Human Magnet Syndrome explanation, toward the solution for it.
The seminar audience will come to understand the inner workings of a treatment strategy and techniques that were specifically developed for Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD)™ – Rosenberg’s replacement term for codependency. Each stage represents a linear and sequential element of a treatment process (method) that permanently eradicates SLDD (codependency) while opening up a healing and restorative pathway to “Self-Love Abundance,” otherwise known as the “Codependency Cure™.”
The “Cure” represents a wide array of divergent and eclectic explanations, theories, and treatment techniques into a coherent, logical, and intuitive treatment model. It also illustrates Ross Rosenberg’s original theoretical and practical work. The Ten Stages inform and directs a treatment strategy that actually resolves attachment trauma, core shame, and pathological loneliness – the core issues/problems of SLDD.
The treatment program relies on the power of the SLDD and SLA Pyramids, coupled with an overarching scaffolding of sorts onto which are sequentially organize in a toolbox of Self-Love Recovery treatment techniques. This organizational structure would need to be dialectical in nature, as it would require the integration of seemingly dissimilar and contradictory psychological theories and practices, into a compelling, unified, linear, stage-based explanation of, and blueprint for, Self-Love Recovery. Most importantly, it appeals and make sense to both a prospective client and the treating professional.
Completing the Ten Stages will result in the shedding of SLDD and the permanent transformation into SLA, Self-Love Abundancy. Once at Stage Ten, the newly transformed SLA will have created a personal and relational identity that is infused with strength, empowerment, and of course, self-love. This recovery work is self-perpetuating; it is virtually impossible to go back. Once an SLD “tastes” self-love, they will develop a lifelong appetite for it!
The Ten Stages
- Hitting Bottom
- Human Magnet Syndrome Education
- Withdrawing from SLDD Addiction
- Preparing for the Narcissistic Storm
- Setting Boundaries in Hostile Environments
- Maintaining Safe and Secure Boundaries
- Resolving/Integrating Attachment Trauma
- Discovering Self-Love
- Building an External Foundation of Self-Love
- Shedding SLDD and Acquiring Self-Love Abundance (The Codependency Cure)
CPD Information For Mental Health Professionals
Enjoy complete flexibility with 100% self-paced learning you can access anytime, anywhere, and on any device. Pay once for lifetime access.
Course Duration: 5.5 learning hours
Certificate and CPD hours: On completion you’ll receive a Certificate of Completion to support your CPD records.
Assessment: Complete a short quiz at the end (80% pass mark), which you can resit as many times as needed.
Lifetime Access: Your access to the course does not expire, so you can revisit key concepts anytime you want a refresher for practice.
CPD Eligibility: This program may be suitable for CPD for professionals such as:
- Psychologists
- Counsellors and Psychotherapists
- Social Workers
- Community Workers
- Mental Health Nurses
- General Practitioners (GPs)
- Occupational Therapists
CPD requirements vary between professional bodies, so please check with your association or credentialing body to confirm you can claim CPD hours/OPD points for this program and what evidence they require.
Course Content
Meet Your Instructor
Individuals trapped in destructive relationships with narcissists - and the practitioners trying to help them break free from what seems like magnetic attraction to toxic partners - may need more than traditional codependency treatment to understand and heal the deeper patterns that keep them stuck. Ross Rosenberg has spent over 35 years developing groundbreaking theories about what he calls "The Human Magnet Syndrome," becoming one of the world's leading experts in narcissistic abuse recovery and the pioneer of "Self-Love Deficit Disorder™" as a revolutionary replacement for outdated codependency concepts.
As CEO/Owner of Self-Love Recovery Institute and bestselling author of The Human Magnet Syndrome (200,000+ copies sold in 12 languages, Amazon bestseller since 2013), Rosenberg brings unique expertise that combines clinical excellence with massive global reach. His 34+ million YouTube views, 310,000+ subscribers, and top 2% globally-ranked Self-Love Recovery Podcast demonstrate his exceptional ability to make complex psychological concepts accessible to millions worldwide. His latest work, The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken, introduces his revolutionary Self-Love Deficit Disorder™ concept, fundamentally reshaping how we understand and treat codependent patterns.
Rosenberg's expertise spans codependency (Self-Love Deficit Disorder™), narcissistic abuse recovery, pathological narcissism, trauma treatment, gaslighting recovery, and what he describes as helping people break free from their "magnetic" attraction to partners who hurt them. His approach recognises that traditional codependency treatment often fails because it doesn't address the deeper self-love deficits that create vulnerability to narcissistic partners. He specialises in helping survivors of narcissistic abuse understand why they repeatedly choose harmful partners, develop the self-love necessary to break these patterns, and recover from the complex trauma that narcissistic relationships create.
What sets his training apart is theoretical innovation combined with authentic vulnerability. Rosenberg doesn't just teach recovery techniques - he shows practitioners and clients how to understand the unconscious "magnetic" dynamics that draw codependent individuals to narcissistic partners. His willingness to share his own recovery journey creates the authentic connection that facilitates deep healing in both professional and personal contexts.
For your practice, expect to gain specific techniques for treating narcissistic abuse trauma, tools for helping clients develop genuine self-love, and frameworks for understanding the complex dynamics that keep people trapped in toxic relationships. His approach particularly benefits practitioners working with domestic abuse survivors, those treating complex trauma presentations, or clinicians wanting to develop expertise in narcissistic abuse recovery.
Quick Win: Rosenberg's "Observe Don't Absorb" technique helps clients to create emotional boundaries with narcissistic partners - sometimes providing the first sense of personal power they've experienced in years while building the foundation for deeper recovery work.
Qualifications
- M.Ed., Counseling Psychology, Boston University, 1988
- B.A., Psychology, Towson University, Maryland, 1987
- Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), Illinois
- Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC)
- Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT)
- 35+ years clinical experience (practicing since 1988)
Authored Books & Publications
- The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken (2024, introduces Self-Love Deficit Disorder™ concept)
- The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018, Morgan James Publishing, complete rewrite)
- The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us (2013, Premier Publishing & Media, 200,000+ copies sold in 12 languages, Amazon bestseller since 2013)
- The Codependency Cure™ (treatment methodology book)
Media & Global Reach
- 34+ million YouTube views with 310,000+ subscribers
- Self-Love Recovery Podcast: Top 2% globally ranked, 245,000+ downloads
- Featured on: ABC Late Night, Fox News, WGN News, UT-San Diego News
- Regular contributor: Huffington Post, PsychCentral.com
- Featured in: Chicago Tribune, Publisher Weekly
- Hundreds of podcast guest appearances
Professional Experience & Leadership
- CEO/Owner, Self-Love Recovery Institute, Pensacola, FL, September 2013–present
- Owner, Clinical Care Consultants, Arlington Heights, IL, 2012–current
- Expert Witness, Narcissistic Abuse cases, current
- Owner, Advanced Clinical Trainers (professional training company)
Clinical Specialties
- Narcissistic abuse recovery and complex trauma treatment
- Self-Love Deficit Disorder™ (codependency) treatment
- Pathological narcissism and personality disorders
- Gaslighting recovery and psychological manipulation
- Sex and love addiction therapy
- Expert witness work in narcissistic abuse cases
Ready to help clients break free from their magnetic attraction to toxic partners and develop genuine self-love? Discover how Ross Rosenberg's revolutionary Self-Love Deficit Disorder™ methods can transform your understanding of codependency while giving you the tools to help survivors of narcissistic abuse create healthy, loving relationships for the first time.
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This course includes:
- Lessons 1
- Topics 6
- Duration 5.5 hours
- Quizzes 1
- Language English